I’m delighted to introduce to you my guest, Penny Hunt. Penny is a fellow author with Lighthouse Publishers of the Carolinas. She enjoys encouraging others in pressing into Jesus when life comes at you hard. Penny joins me in praying God’s best for you, our readers, and asking that you will receive strength for the journey.
Welcome to Morning Glory, Penny!
my new husband’s parents drove us to their home and we moved into their
basement. My in-laws were wonderful
people. They treated me like their own
daughter, and I had a few months of relative happiness until at eighteen weeks
I miscarried and lost the baby.
you are reading these words and have lost a child or a grandchild either
through illness or accident, or a preborn through miscarriage or abortion there
is something very important you need to know. God loves children. He loves the infant. He loves the newborn. He loves the preborn. All children are precious in His sight.
read in the Bible that when King David’s newborn son died he wisely said, “I shall go to him, but he shall not return
to me.” David knew – as Jesus later
affirmed in the gospel of Mathew during a discussion with His disciples about
who would be the greatest in His Kingdom – that God is not willing for any
child to be lost. “I tell you that their angels in heaven always see the face of my
Father…your Father is not willing that any of these little ones should perish.”
a long time after my miscarriage I believed I was being punished for getting pregnant
out of wedlock and wondered if my baby was in heaven or not. What a comfort it
was to learn that truth.
also learned something else through that season of anxiety and loss. I learned
some of the foolish and totally inappropriate things people will say to a woman
who has just suffered a miscarriage.
can always try again.” As if you didn’t “try” hard enough the first time and
can do better next time.
least you weren’t further along.” Loss does not have a timeline.
least you didn’t know your baby.” A
woman begins loving her baby the moment she knows she’s pregnant. She is grieving because she never had the chance
to fully know the child she loved.
probably for the best.” Really? For who? The mother? The now dead baby?
worry. It won’t happen again.” Oh, how we hope and pray this will be true
but building false hopes and expectations for the next time can be a set-up for
an even greater letdown if everything does not go well…with an even longer time
what should you say? A simple, “I’m
sorry” is usually best. If you’re particularly close, really mean it, and will
follow through, you might add, “Is there anything I can do for you?”
life and your life will never be perfect.
There will always be good times and bad times. However, it has been said, and I believe it
is true, that the most vibrant and fragrant of blossoms are those that have
been sown in the crucible of life. God will, in time and ways you cannot
imagine right now, use even this heartache for good in your life as you trust
Him and cling to Him for comfort. God never wastes our pain.
Don’t Break… Amazon.com bestselling author and speaker, Penny L. Hunt shares the
way she has learned to bounce-back from set-backs and emerge from unwanted
change stronger, more authentic and resilient.